ग्रुप्स आणि मी

प्रत्येकाला काही न काही अडचणी असतात. कोणी बोलतं, कोणी बोलत नाही. कोणी आपापले मार्ग आपणच शोधतात, कोणी इतरांना विचारतात.

पण ह्या सगळ्या प्रोसेस मधे सोबत कोणीतरी हवं असतं. नेहमी सगळा प्रॉब्लेम शेअर केला जाईल असही नाही. पण नुसतं बोलायला, व्हेंट आऊट व्हायला हवं असतं.

कधी माहिती - मदतहवी असते. या सगळ्यामधे प्रत्येकाच्या कॉंट्रीब्युशन असते, असावी लागते. कधी नुसतं एेकून घ्यायची, कधी सल्ले देण्याची,
*टर्न बाय टर्न हे प्रत्येकानं केलं तर गृप घट्ट होत जातो*

कधी एखादीला सतत माहितीच हवी, ती मात्र इतरांच्या मदतीला येत नाही, असं झालं की मग हा बंध सैल होऊ लागतो. सतत एकीलाच पँपर करत रहाणं हेही काही फार संयुक्तिक नाही.

तसच कधीतरी तुमची चूक दाखवली जाऊ शकते हेही लक्षात घ्यायला हवं.

तर कधी कोणीच मदतीला येऊ शकत नाही हेही समजून घेतलं पाहिजे.

प्रत्येकाचं मत वेगळं, अनुभव वेगळा, स्वभाव वेगळा,... हे प्रत्येकानेच समजून घ्यायला हवं.
आणि समजा एखाद्याला नाही समजलं एखाद वेळेस तर ते सोडूनही देता आलं पाहिजे.

सर्वात महत्वाचे म्हणजे गृप मधून बाहेर पडताना, नीट सांगून बाहेर पडायला हवं. परतीची वाट ओपन ठेवा.

हे सगळं लिहितोय ते खर तर माझं मलाच सांगतोय. सो नो ऑफेन्स प्लिज

इत्यादी...

तुला मिठीत घ्यायला
मला ' आवडणार ' नाही...
आवडत नाही असे कुणी सांगितले ?
तसे फार वेळा मनात येते
पण मग तिथे गोष्टी संपत नाहीत
मिठी संभाषणासारखी असते
आधी साधत नाही
मग कधी संपत नाही
आता त्या न संपणाऱ्या न घडणाऱ्या
संवादाचे काय करावे?
मिठी रेंगाळनार्या संवादात
'इत्यादी' असतोच ना
तसे तू मिठीचे करून टाकतेस
इत्यादी इत्यादी घुसमटनारे इत्यादी
दिघ:मूढ इत्यादी शब्द,स्पर्श,व्याकुळ ,
इत्यादी इत्यादींच्या अनेक तऱ्हां......
इत्यादींची मला भीती वाटते
तुलाही वाटते
तुझीही वाटते
इत्यादी भीती वाटण्यासाठीच असतात
किंवा निरर्थकमध्येच
केंव्हा तरी
माझ्याकडे वळणार्या
तुझ्या आतुर नजरेसारखी
ती निरर्थक असते !!!
असे नव्हे ,
पण कदाचीत तसेच असते
कारण ती इत्यादी असते
इत्यादी म्हणले तर अर्थपूर्ण असतात
म्हणले तर निरर्थक
मग कुणी म्हणले तर......
इत्यादी,इत्यादी........

(तहकीक ऋषिकेश रवींद्र)

First Few days in MGM-CABT

It was 20th june I believe! I just saw the details of the Maharashtra agriculture research institutions(MCAER) undergraduate programs only a week before the last date. I decided to apply for it and just applied in a hurry actually, yes, it was really a hurry! I was done with everything and sent the application.

I was waiting for the release of selected list of candidates from the 25th july They updated the selection list everyday but my name was not on the list till 25th of March!that time i require admission is very essential otherwise my 1 year may spoil or if i took wrong decision may my whole carrier in danger to i remain very cool try to encourage myself because i fail pmt with narrow margin i dont want to took admission for BAMS or pharmacy . I used to go to the MCAER website everyday and check the list, but, my name was not there in the selected list of candidates. I lost all my hope and decided that I won't get selected. But, it happened! I received a mail from the Academy after 29th of july! I was happy to the core, jumping up and down. Because, after the 3 month of negative stress there is something to makes me happy from school time my favorite subject is biology its felling a good i go for most advanced course of natural science in no1 college

I believed that this would change my destiny to a better place! The college is not more long than my town but i required change

I was happy till my father said "no" to this. He was really afraid to send me out of my town! But, I managed to convince my dad and he accepted to allow me to take mebin hostel

And, the next problem after convincing my dad was, "when to join for the mgm cabt After lots of confusions, finally joined mgm hostel gandheli which was allotted me @ 7th and college starts 8th August

And, this is the first time for me, away from home!

Boys hostel. My room mate, he is a vaibhav kale and I'm really enjoying her company.

mgm college agri Biotechnology
In the college  I got some new friends firest day lectures by mr. Chandre and mr shukre both of them goes basics in Biotechnology i was found active in class because we disscuss my fav subject i.e. Scope for biotechnology this day was play imp role in my image build up i.e. Day scholar student..

I now aware of all tensions forgot all problems in gandheli and its makes i love gandheli

Even i begain again for makes poems, write articles that i stops in cet period i.e. Very stressful time i got only 140/200 marks

After some days i

Introduced with B.N. Chavan sir who is principal and dean of our college they tell us about degree programe rules and regulation of college

The normal college timing is from 9.30 a.m to 5.oo p.m. And students do research even late nights which shows their ultimate interest. People here are dedicated!

Learning many things apart from the academics, which i hope will be very useful for the rest of my life. It is very safe in here and the place is really "God's own Country". People here are very friendly, smiling and caring, so that getting acquainted with the new environment becomes very easy!

Finally, I'm feeling free and independent for the first time in my life with a complete satisfaction of what I'm doing right now!
Many of the memories but i share after some day i go for completion practical the exam on head !

best wishes......

Yours friend
Rushikesh

All I Needed to Know I Learned in ... ???

I know I am going off on a tangent here, away from my destination of a Creationist's view of biotechnology

but I was thinking that there are many books and essays and teachings in the secular world that men use to guide their lives that either contain lessons similar to those in the Word or are directly or indirectly based on them. Three such books to me are:

All I Really Need To Know I Read  in These Books  it is the "secret "
and
The Seven Habits of Highly Effective People by Stephen R. Covey

Each has several key directives to focus on to make your life more relational, less anxious and guided by a purpose or destiny. Lets take a closer look at some of the directives from each book.

All You Really Need to Know

All I Really Need To Know secret is a book of  Rhonda Byrne , and book become so popular until it get in my hand,
The title explain itself what is book actually about i.e. lists lessons normally learned in everyday life and some secret of great people  they  explains how the world would be better if we all lived by the same rules; sharing, being kind to one another, cleaning up after ourselves, and living "a balanced life" of work, play, and learning. The book contains over 50 short Lesson, reflecting on topics ranging from love,relationship,life,and social life

Here are a few of the points Rhonda Byrne

makes in his opening essay:
Live a balanced life
Clean up your own mess
Play fair
Share everything
Here are some  that direct us to a similar path:

Live a balanced life - learn some and think some and draw and paint and sing and dance and play and work every day some.
- There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under heaven:
- Learn to do right! Seek justice, encourage the oppressed. Defend the cause of the fatherless, plead the case of the widow.
- Finally, brothers, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable--if anything is excellent or praiseworthy--think about such things.
Clean up your own mess - Clean up after yourself.
- "And when he comes, he finds [his house] swept and put in order.
- Let all things be done decently and in order.
-  And the second [commandment] is like it: "Love your neighbor as yourself."
In a subsequent blog we will look at the next book,

"The Seven Habits of Highly Effective People"

What I,ve learn

*What I have Learn....*

I have learned lot these past few years...

Through my fake smiles and unseen tears...

That, friends sometimes aren't forever 

that true love doesn't always last ....

Happy memories stay with youbut those happy moments go by fast...

Words can cut deeper than any sword...
Leaving you with something
That no man could replace or ever afford....

Sometimes things happen,

Sometimes your heart will break 

Though to feel real happiness

This is what's at stake in order to have the comfort of heaven

Your story to live to tell You must also experience the hate-filled life of hell 

Remember . . .

There will always be someone there Someone that honestly does care

 Person can leave your life 

Leave you alone

with your worries and strife

But like pain,the love you once

felt cannot from your body depart

but only may enter your heart 

Trying everything they can to help you 

Still you sit there unknowing and blind To what soon you'll be glad to find....

-Tahakik RR